The scene unfolds in a public place. A park, for example. In a corner, a couple is having sex. They do so with the intention of being watched. The gaze of strangers adds an extra layer of sexual excitement to their encounter. In a way, they are exhibitionists seeking voyeurs. What they are doing has a name: dogging , and it has more followers than we might imagine.
In this post, we'll discuss what dogging is , what motivates people to practice it, and how and where it's usually done. We'll also offer some basic tips for practicing it safely, in case you're interested in exploring this type of activity. Perhaps there's an exhibitionist inside you just waiting to come out.
What is dogging and why is it practiced?
As we have pointed out previously, dogging (also called cancaneo ) is a sexual practice that consists of having intimate relations in public or semi-public places while being observed by other people.
As we can see, this is a practice that has a strong element of exhibitionism . In many cases, it also implies that dogging is the result of an encounter with strangers (but not with prostitutes ).
Among the motivations that may drive people to engage in this type of sexual relationship, we can highlight the following:
- The thrill of being watched while having sex. As we mentioned earlier, dogging is a practice that has a strong exhibitionist element, and there's nothing that excites an exhibitionist more than being watched by a casual or sought-after voyeur.
- Breaking with routine. All experimentation, by definition, involves escaping monotony and seeking new paths. This action, therefore, contains an element of adventure, and let's not forget, every adventure adds spice to life, new stimuli. These stimuli, when the experimentation is of a sexual nature, are very exciting.
- Establish new group or community connections. Meeting people who share the same interests and tastes can be a very important incentive to join the dogging community.
- Fulfillment of sexual fantasies and/or exploration of limits.
As we can see, the motivations for practicing dogging are quite diverse and can vary from person to person. Some people may engage in dogging for a single reason, but more commonly, a combination of the factors mentioned is the most reasonable justification for why someone finds dogging a very exciting activity.
Next, we'll see how dogging is usually practiced.
How is dogging practiced?
As we have pointed out, dogging is the result of two drives: the exhibitionist drive and the voyeuristic drive. From the confluence of exhibitionism and voyeurism, dogging is born.
In today's world, it's relatively easy for exhibitionists and voyeurs to find the right time and place to satisfy both their urges. The internet makes these kinds of encounters much easier. People use various chat rooms, platforms, and social networks to share meeting points, codes, and schedules. Appointments can thus be arranged quickly and conveniently.
The locations typically chosen are secluded areas (we'll discuss this in more detail later), and the times are set for off-peak hours. This prevents the sexual act from being witnessed by children or other uninvited people.
Before the encounter takes place, it's common practice to establish a series of signals or codes between the participants so they know how to act at each moment. For example, if the exhibitionist couple is inside a car, they may or may not leave the interior lights on. If they do, it indicates that watching is allowed. On the other hand, if windows and/or doors are opened, it indicates that the voyeur can become something more: they can "join the party." In other words, they can participate in the sexual encounter.
Let's look at the places where dogging is usually practiced .
Common places for cancaneo
Every city, region, or country has its own specific dogging spots , but there are a number of patterns or locations common to them all. These are the following:
- Parks and green spaces. Especially at night and in secluded spots.
- Parking lots and service areas on roads and motorways (especially at night).
- Inside cars in open fields, industrial parks or secondary roads.
- Beaches, coves or somewhat isolated rocky areas.
- Other semi-public spaces such as public restrooms (in shopping centers, for example) or fitting rooms.
In many large cities there are dogging websites that provide information on which spots in the geographical area covered by the website are ideal for dogging .
Tips for practicing dogging
We can't deny it: hooking up is a risky practice, so it's important to minimize the risks as much as possible. How? By following the advice we'll give below.
The first thing those who enjoy hooking up should know is the local laws regarding anything related to indecent exposure or having sex in public places. In many places, fines are high and, worse, can result in a criminal record. In any case, it's always best to avoid places where there might be minors or families.
It's also advisable to avoid meeting in overly isolated locations or places with difficult escape routes. Having a fully charged mobile phone (and ensuring there's coverage at the meeting place) is crucial to stay connected in case of danger and be able to call for help. Returning home via a different route than the one taken to get to the meeting place is also a precaution. This helps avoid the risks associated with being followed.
Another important piece of advice is to use pseudonyms and not give personal information to strangers. Anyone worried about having their images circulated (a risk that always exists) should consider not showing their face or revealing physical features that could be used to identify them.
As with any risky sexual practice , it's essential to agree with your partner on what is and isn't allowed. Naturally, any activity should be able to be stopped at any time. No one can pressure anyone into doing something they don't want to do. To this end, it's recommended to establish clear signals, whether through gestures or words.
Finally, it is recommended to bring condoms, lubricant, wet wipes, and hand sanitizer to any dogging encounter. If sex toys are used, they should not be shared unless they have been thoroughly cleaned or fitted with appropriate protection.
