The world of sexuality and sexual practices is full of terms of British origin that don't always have a direct translation into Spanish. One of those terms is "cruising ." This term refers to a sexual practice involving quick sex with strangers.
In this post, we'll explain what cruising is and why so many people (especially men) are addicted to it. Finally, we'll dedicate a section of our article to describing the risks of this sexual practice .
What is cruising?
Cruising is a sexual activity consisting of having a quick and anonymous sexual encounter or relationship with a stranger in a public or semi-public place.
Traditionally associated with the LGBTQ+ community (it has commonly been understood as a gay practice), it is usually practiced in parks, wooded areas, beaches and saunas, as well as in rest areas or bathrooms of shopping centers, stations or parking lots.
Those initiated into this sexual practice know that these quick and anonymous encounters usually take place through the following dynamic:
- Eye contact.
- Subtle gestures of proposal and acceptance.
- Direct sexual interaction without exchanging any personal information.
The motivations that drive a person to seek and maintain this type of practice can be varied. We will discuss them in the next section.
Motivations for cruising
When it comes to how people experience their sexuality, everyone is different. We don't all love the same practices. Some people are truly passionate about oral sex, while others consider it dirty. What might be very exciting for one person could provoke absolute rejection or, at the very least, marked indifference in another.
The motivations that lead us to prefer one type of practice over another can be very varied. In the case at hand, the motivations can be of different types.
In its origins, it's important to highlight one reason why many people felt "pushed," in a way, to enjoy sex by resorting to these practices. Within a homophobic society already lacking safe spaces for sexual relations, this form of quick and anonymous sex was, for many gay men, a way to socialize and meet other men with the same sexual orientation.
Now, immersed in a society where there is still much to be done in the area of respect for the sexuality of others, but where many steps have been taken in the direction of respect and acceptance of gays and lesbians, and where both enjoy a greater possibility of accessing safe spaces in which to have sexual relations, the motivations for cruising may be different.
For example, some people find anonymity a major incentive for engaging in these types of sexual encounters. Not revealing one's identity during sex can be liberating and, at the same time, very exciting for certain individuals.
Others, meanwhile, find stimulation and motivation in the sense of risk that is always associated with sex with strangers . Crossing what is considered a forbidden boundary is very exciting for these people.
There are also those who see these kinds of uncertain and fleeting encounters as an authentic expression of spontaneity and sexual freedom. In a way, for these people, cruising is a way of breaking the conventional rules that govern the world of dating or hookups.
Having seen the reasons for cruising , let's look at the risks involved.
The risks of cruising
However striking, intense and liberal it may seem, what cannot be forgotten is that this is a practice that involves several risks.
The first and most important point concerns legality. In most legal systems, engaging in sexual activity is considered, at the very least, an offense. In some places, it is even classified as "indecent exposure."
The second risk of cruising stems from the possibility of experiencing violence, robbery, or extortion. After all, these encounters are with strangers whose motivations and intentions are unknown.
The third risk falls within the realm of health. The risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) is very high in these cases. Protective measures must be used, and in this regard, it should never be forgotten that a condom is always a great help in preventing or reducing the number of infections of diseases such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, or HIV/AIDS, among others.
Finally, it should not be forgotten that, by exposing oneself in a public or semi-public place, the person may be identified, with the consequent loss of privacy which, in certain environments or circumstances, may lead to a situation of stigmatization.
To avoid these risks, we advise:
- Use common sense. Avoid overly dark or isolated areas.
- Do not do anything visible in areas where there may be families, minors or people unrelated to the cruising world.
- Review websites that collect information, opinions, and/or experiences about the different areas.
Where to go cruising in Madrid?
Madrid has no shortage of places, more or less public, more or less discreet, in which to practice cruising.
Beyond the bars and clubs with cruising areas , dark rooms, or labyrinths that can be found in various parts of Madrid, especially in the Chueca neighborhood, there are parks and green spaces in the Spanish capital that have well-known areas for encounters between men. The Casa de Campo has traditionally been known for this, particularly in the wooded areas near the cable car or Garabitas Hill, but there are also areas for these kinds of quick and anonymous sexual encounters in the Parque del Oeste and the centrally located Retiro Park.
Some train stations and interchanges in Madrid, as well as some department store restrooms, are often cited in cruising circles as popular spots for this activity. Among the former are stations and transfer points like Chamartín, Moncloa, and Méndez Álvaro. The parking garage at the Las Ventas bullring is also mentioned in some guides, as are the area around the Moncloa Lighthouse and the University City campus.
If you don't feel like meeting an escort in Madrid , here's a summary of the most common places:
The Retiro Park: Encounters and nature
Retiro Park , a green lung of Madrid, is also a popular meeting place for cruising. Its wide paths, wooded areas, and secluded spots provide a suitable environment for informal encounters. It's common to see people looking for hookups, particularly in areas like the Perennial Garden or near the Large Pond. Remember to be respectful and pay attention to others' indications of interest.
The Chueca area: A prominent cultural center
Chueca , Madrid's quintessential LGBTQ+ neighborhood, is undoubtedly one of the most iconic spots for cruising. This area attracts a diverse crowd looking to socialize, thanks to its vibrant nightlife, bars, and clubs. The pedestrian streets, including Calle del Barquillo and Calle Hortaleza, are popular places where people can freely mingle. Furthermore, several establishments are known for fostering interaction among individuals with similar interests, creating an inclusive and welcoming environment.
Public restrooms: Discretion and privacy
In Madrid, public restrooms are another traditional cruising spot. People who prefer more private encounters frequent places like the famous restroom at the Gran Vía metro station . These locations often have their own distinctive characteristics and unwritten rules that visitors are aware of and understand. It's essential to proceed with respect and caution, and above all, ensure there's mutual interest before proceeding.
Smaller parks: Urban excursions
In addition to the famous Retiro Park , Madrid has many other less well-known parks that are ideal for cruising. Places like Tierno Galván Park or La Vaguada Park are attractive to those seeking a quieter, less crowded environment. Here, the chances of meeting someone who shares your interests increase among the trees and less-traveled paths. The key is finding these hidden spots and adjusting to the energy of the place.
The best places to practice cruising in Barcelona
In the case of Barcelona, lists and websites that mention cruising spots highlight two key locations: Montjuïc mountain and the Carretera de les Aigües, on the Collserola slope facing the city. The nudist beach of Mar Bella, at times when there are fewer families, is also mentioned in some guides.
If you prefer this option to meeting escorts in Barcelona , in summary these would be the places:
Montjuïc Park
Montjuïc Park is one of the most popular cruising spots in Barcelona. With its expansive green spaces and winding paths, the park offers an ideal setting for discreet encounters. Some areas, like the Joan Maragall Gardens, become gathering places for large crowds at night.
Ciutadella Park
Ciutadella Park is another iconic spot. This beautiful park, besides being a perfect place for a stroll, has areas where you can interact with other people and, sometimes, make connections. The relaxed atmosphere, along with the lush vegetation and peaceful spots, encourages chance encounters.
LGBT bars and clubs
Barcelona has a vibrant nightlife, and its many gay bars and clubs are popular cruising spots. Establishments like Metro Disco and La Chapelle , which attract a diverse crowd, are often the scene of more intimate encounters. These venues offer a warm and safe environment for enjoying the evening, as well as dark rooms .
Barceloneta beach
Barceloneta beach is a must-mention spot when discussing cruising in Barcelona . During the day, the beach is a popular place for sunbathing and relaxing; however, as evening falls, it transforms into a perfect meeting point for those seeking connection. Casual encounters are more likely to occur in the less crowded areas of the beach.
